The Gifted Child: The Difference between Bright and Gifted

When a child is struggling at school, it eventually becomes apparent and supports are available to help them. There are individual resource hours, group resource hours, special needs assistants and a number of waivers available.  Granted parents would like more, but over the past 20 years massive improvements in special education needs have been made.

We have names – dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, which makes it easier to explain what the specific struggle.  These names are loosely called Learning Disabilities but I prefer the term Learning Differences because everybody can learn, but we all learn differently.

Bright children are those who tend to succeed better in a typical school setting. They are the teacher pleasers. They work, perhaps, harder than their gifted counterparts and receive praise for those efforts. They stay out of trouble, are compliant in class, get As, and complete their work. Naturally parents and teachers alike are happy to have these kinds of students.

These qualities often are mistaken as signs of giftedness. This distinction is worth discussion. Based on Janice Szabos’ development of this concept, here are a few ways to understand the differences;

The gifted learner asks the questions; the bright child knows the answer:The bright, above-average student, as previously mentioned is likely to get As. They are great at memorising.They comprehend at a high level, absorb information, and complete their work. The gifted learner, on the other hand, already knows. They have an amazing memory for detail and possesses a lot of information about the topic at hand.

Where the bright child accepts and readily retains information about the topic, the gifted learner manipulates that information in order to draw unique inferences. Certainly, the bright child performs at the top of the group. The gifted learner is the beyond the group.

The gifted learner knows without working hard; the bright child works hard to achieve:  For the bright child, the average classroom teacher offers precisely what this student craves: clear expectations, a path to an A, and an environment where this sort of success is rewarded. However, where they may very well earn those As, the gifted learner is far less likely to be motivated at all by grades; where the bright child needs 6-8 repetitions for mastery, the gifted needs only 1-2. Bright children will copy the teacher’s model response to a question or task accurately, while gifted one’s will be original and continually developing.

A bright child enjoys school; the gifted learner enjoys self-directed learning. The bright child is interested and attentive at school; listens to the material and is receptive and enjoys her peers. The gifted learner, conversely, is more than merely interested in the way that seasons change: he is highly curious about it. She shows her attentiveness by staying in her seat and keeping her eyes on the teacher. But he is genuinely mentally–and sometimes physically–involved in the topic. He may have a hard time listening to the discussion of the Earth’s movement around the sun without actually moving his hands and arms in an elliptical fashion. When the lesson in over, she finds her friends; he prefers the teacher or some other adult in the room. Or perhaps he prefers working alone. She is receptive at school; he can be downright intense at school. She may enjoy the curriculum and its pace; he may tolerate it or even rebel against the slowness of it.

The bright child has a good imagination but the gifted learner uses their imagination to experiment with ideas and hunches: Her ideas are clever, but his are original. She can see an alternate route to a solution; he can easily “track” two or more approaches to a similar solution simultaneously. Because she is clever, she can find relationships between loosely connected ideas; but he, perhaps, values the very non-conformity of concepts–and looks for ways to draw even further distinctions between them.
Teasing out the distinctions between Gifted and Bright, for others to see, is not easy. What is required, is defining giftedness as something that is beyond just being a high achiever. Often gifted students are high achievers but, perhaps just as often, they are not. This is why being able to draw the fine line is so important.

Gifted children can struggle at school too, but it is usually not as apparent.  Just as some children find it difficult to keep up with their peers, gifted children can find it equally as difficult to hold themselves back and stay at the pace of the rest of the class.

It’s not that they think that they are better than everyone else, just that they simply learn at a different pace.  Gifted students can easily fall behind in class because they get bored and switch off.  They finish their work sooner and want to walk around or they start talking to other students and interrupt them.  Their behaviour can lead to them being labelled as disruptive.

Parents of gifted children face lots of challenges, this first of which is understanding the difference between bright and gifted.

Parents often find bring up the subject of giftedness with the teacher very difficult.  They fear being thought of as ‘those kind of parents’, they ones who think that their ‘Johnny is better than everyone else’.  They particularly find it difficult when the child has been causing behavioural problems for the teacher.  Sometimes teachers don’t recognise the signs.  Children are labelled as ‘dreamers’ or ‘switched off’, they ‘lack focus’ or ‘challenge’ the teacher; ‘they ask too many questions’.

Resources are available in schools for gifted students, but as a parent you may need to push for them. Teachers are looking out for learning dis-abilities but it could be that your child’s ability may be holding them back!  Be your child’s advocate.  An excellent starting point is http://www.giftedkids.ie or contact us here at Hummingbird Learning Centre.

 

Reference: Janice Szabos as quoted in Differentiating Instruction in the Regular Classroom by Diane Heacox, Free Spirit Publishing, 2001.

Dealing with a Difficult Teacher

In an ideal world, school would be an amazing, productive, happy place where enthusiastic educators nurtured young minds & taught them to love learning.  Most of the teachers I have met over the years strive towards that ideal, but just like in every workplace, there are difficult people in teaching too.

Parents often ask me for tips on how to deal with difficult teachers.  Their fear is that by tackling the teacher they may in fact make the situation worse for their child.  This is particularly true of small schools where the student may have the same teacher for a number of years.

When dealing with difficult teachers, I suggest the following;

Respect:  Like them or loath them, the teacher deserves to be treated with respect.  Treat them as you would like them to treat your child. You can never directly change a person’s behaviour.  You can however, control your behaviour and when you behave in a respectful manner you will ultimately change that person’s behaviour towards you.

Communication:  Nobody likes to be door stepped so arrange an appointment just as you would with a doctor or dentist.  Have your diary ready – know when you are available.  If the teacher cannot meet you within a few days, give them some alternative times when you are available.  That way you are giving them a choice but not control.  Do not be bullied into a time.  Your time is just as valuable as the teacher’s.  You need to be calm & ready for the meeting, not stressed about it.  Keep a record of how many appointments are proposed, dates, times, phone calls etc

Unemotional:  Talking about our children leaves us very open to being emotional and when emotional sometimes things can be said rashly.  A good way to detach at these times is to imagine yourself observing the meeting.  This helps you to disassociate from what is being said & to remain calm.

TRACKPrepare:  No doubt the difficult teacher will have prepared themselves for the meeting, so you need to be prepared too.  If you are unprepared it will be very difficult for you to refute anything the teacher says.   Check out the school policy, read the latest Whole School Evaluation on the Department of Education website. Have a look at the NCCA website and the teacher union websites.  They all hold lots of valuable information – not forgetting the National Parent Councils websites.

When preparing, make sure that you have lots of items to celebrate about your child.  Remember that they are very successful human beings and are learning in their own way.  You may have a lot of negativity coming from the difficult teacher & you need to be able to focus on what is going well & how to turn around what is not going well yet.

Language:  When I say watch your language, I don’t mean bad language (that goes without saying).  What I mean is listen carefully to every word as  the teacher may  use absolute words such as never, always, all, only, everyone, e.g. everyone else sits quietly all the time.  The only way to challenge this type of language is to calmly repeat the absolute word and make it into a question – everyone? All the time?  Never?  Always?   It undermines the absolute and allows the conversation to move forward.

Track:  Track everything!  I know it sounds a bit over the top but if a teacher is proving to be difficult you need a record and a timeline.  If you asked to be rung and no calls were made, record it. Appointment rescheduled – record it.   In the event that you need to bring the matter further you will need to show that you have been the reasonable party.

Meeting:  When at the meeting ask that the teacher sit beside you away from a school desk – this is a meeting of equals, you are not student. If you know the teacher’s first name use it, if you don’t ask them and introduce yourself with your first name.  It is the 21st century & hiding behind Mr or Mrs is an attempt to assert their dominance.  Be friendly, you are here to help both the teacher and your child.  Be open to what the teacher has to say.  Ask how together you can solve the issue.  Agree a time & date for the follow-up meeting, say in 2 weeks time, to evaluate progress.

Hummingbird Learning CentreAfter the meeting:  Follow up with a handwritten thank you card and a written copy of what was agreed at the meeting and confirm the date & time of the follow-up meeting. Be at that follow-up meeting! Move heaven & earth to be there!

Escalate: If after your meeting(s), you are not getting a favourable outcome then you must escalate the issue to the next level.  This is where your tracking will be invaluable.  Yes it may mean more hassle for you but you are your child’s advocate and they need you.

Like all bad situations, ignoring the problem won’t make it go away.  Sometimes difficult decisions may have to be made, but those decisions can be come to easier when approached correctly.  The majority of teachers have their pupils’ welfare at heart and want them to do well.  Most teachers are reasonable and welcome parental involvement, particularly if any issue arises that is causing difficulty in the class.  Thankfully, these open-minded, caring teachers are the teachers your children will meet, most of the time.

If you need some help here are some useful websites:

Hummingbird Learning centre                                    www.hummingbirdlearning.com

National Council for Curriculum and Development:          www.ncca.ie

Gifted Children                                                                                 www.giftedkids.ie

Department of Education & Skills                                              www.education.ie

#DyslexiaAwarenessMonth #DyslexiaAwarenessWeek

This month is International Dyslexia Awareness Month & here in Ireland, this week is Dyslexia Awareness Week.

Whenever someone tells me that they are dyslexic, I always say ‘Hi Dyslexic, I’m Elaine’.  Usually they’ll look at me quizzically and say ‘no – I have dyslexia’, to which I reply with ‘great, show it to me’. With their patience beginning to grow thin, they will explain that they have it in their head but I’m curious, so I want to know where in their head they have it. ‘In my brain’ they practically shout at me but I’m tenacious, I want to know specifically where they have it and how do they know that they have it and when do they know that they have it.

Interestingly, they are usually only aware of it when reading, writing or spelling.  The rest of the time they are completely unaware that they are doing dyslexia.  That is it – you are not dyslexic! Dyslexia is something that you do!

What is DyslexiaDyslexia is a pattern that you run and because it is something that you do naturally, you are really unaware of it. You are unaware of all the wonderful abilities dyslexia brings to you because it’s just a part of you.  People who do dyslexia can be incredible problem solvers and innovators. They are fantastic with machinery and engineering.  They are amazing crafts people, golfers, builders and snooker players because they can see angles and potential in lumps of rock and clay.

This very ability though, is not a great strategy to run when reading, writing & spelling.  The ability to move & manipulate images in your head, means that you can also do this with words & letters.  Words & letters however, must remain visable, be still and keep their shape in order for us to read, write and spell.  So a person who does dyslexia needs a different strategy to be able to do this with ease.

In school, the curriculum is taught with a massive emphasis on phonics – even though English is not a particularly phonetic language.  It works reasonably well for most children but for others it doesn’t. They need a completely different strategy, one that compliments their natural abilities, rather than shoehorning them into a size that doesn’t fit.  Yes if you push hard enough, they can squeeze into phonics, but they will be hobbling along for the rest of their lives.

A visual strategy, such as the Hummingbird Learning Method® where they learn to control their images, works like magic for people who do dyslexia and indeed for anyone who struggles with spelling.  The beauty of a visual strategy is that it works for every language as it doesn’t depend on sounds, so the student’s Irish, French, Spanish, Japanese, or any other language also improves.

So remember – Dyslexia is a wonderful gift to have, it is just not the best strategy to run when reading, writing or spelling.  Dyslexia is simply something you do – it’s not who you are.

If you , or someone you know is struggling with Dyslexia, please let them know about us.  We are in Adare & Tralee.  If they are too far to travel (people come to us from all over), let them know about our online course, The Secrets to Successful Spelling™.  It will shortly be available.  Just email me at elaine@hummingbirdlearning.com & I will put them on my notification list so that they will be among the first to know when it is launched & can avail of the special launch price.

Have a great week,

Elaine

 #4 Tips on How to create a Homework Station that works

If I had my way, I would drastically reduce or even ban homework! Radical I know, but seeing as how Hummingbird Learning world domination is a while off (yet), homework is something that everyone with school going children has to cope with.

Creating a dedicated spot in your home for them to complete their work can help improve their focus and develop proper study habits.  A really good place to go for inspiration is the Ikea or Argos catalogue. A study nook doesn’t have to a staid serious place.  In fact a fun, quirky desk can make studying a far more pleasurable event; simply because it becomes a place you like and want to be.

To achieve this, here are some tips to create that Dr Sheldon Cooper (Big Bang Theory) Spot:

#1 Location

  • Lighting: Good light is essential.  A good desk lamp coupled with softer overhead lighting works really well.
  • Heat: The study nook needs to be warm but take care not to overheat the room as this can make the student drowsy
  • Ventilation: Fresh air is really important. If possible, open the windows for a while when the kids are at school.  A good supply of oxygen will help the brain remain focused for longer.
  • Quiet: While our brain becomes really good at blocking out continuous background sounds over time, it is important to create a calm, quiet study area
  • Sockets: When deciding on a great location be sure to consider where the plug points are. You are going to need lots!

 #2 Fixtures & Fittings

  • Plants: Plants lift the sterile look of a desk, brings actual life to the table and if you use a plant such as a Peace Lily or Spider plant, even increases the oxygen levels in the room, making plants an aid to studying.
  • Desk: It is really important to get a desk that suits the child. It doesn’t have to be an office type desk.  Have a look in Ikea & Argos for ideas.
  • Good Chair: This is vital.  Your child is going to be sitting for a long time & needs to have good posture to prevent back problems in the future and also to maximise oxygen intake.  If they are young, put a step under the desk for them to rest their feet on.  It also helps them be more grounded.
  • Notice Boards: These are great for keeping reminders, notes & personal items close at hand.
  • Storage boxes: Keep everything tidy in cool storage boxes or tins.  Catalogues are full of ideas.  Convert old boxes or tins you have already into something bespoke to reflect your child’s personality.
  • Clock: A silent one – no ticking but an alarm can be handy!  It will help to train your child to work within time segments – vital when doing exams.
  • Book shelves: Great for keeping a desk tidy& having reference books & stationery to hand

#3 Technology

  • Computer: There is no way of getting around this one – computers have become part & parcel of a student’s life.  I recommend using a laptop though, that way it can be taken away to stop it becoming a distraction.  There are loads of applications, such as Net Nanny, available block or limit access to websites, especially social media ones!
  • Printer: Set up the printer at the homework station for ease of access.
  • WiFi: Be sure to have good internet access at the homework station.  If the signal is poor invest in a booster. It will repay itself over and over in hours saved from listening to moaning about bad wifi!

#4 Stationery supplies

  • Dictionaries: We may be in the digital age, but I still think old school is best when it comes to dictionaries.  Make sure to have ones for foreign language classes’ and invest in a really good thesaurus dictionary.  Nothing beats a thesaurus for vocabulary expansion.
  • Timetable: This is where the cork board comes in handy.  Have the corkboard on the wall in front of the desk and pin the timetable to it.  No excuses for not knowing what classes you have tomorrow.
  • Calendar: Use a type of calendar that has space for writing and fill in the school events, holidays, exam weeks etc. This forward planning means that you are organised for the year ahead
  • Store Supplies: Be prepared! Avoid late night panics when supplies run out and have all of the following in a storage box; tape, staples, paperclips, pencils, biros, paper punch, poly pockets, spare folders / files, printer paper, spare copy books, writing pads & notebooks, Art supplies – glue, glitter, felt-tip pens.
  • Desk Supplies: Calculator, maths set, stapler, paperclips, pens, ruler, correction ink. Folder to keep completed work / ongoing projects

Having a defined space to study creates a pattern in your brain.  Just as picking up your car keys brings you into a type of automation for driving ( for example, without thinking you automatically go to the driver’s side), sitting at your homework spot immediately tells your brain I’m going studying and I need to focus.

Now, before the kids go back to school, is the perfect time to create that perfect spot.

Elaine Sparling is the creator of the Hummingbird Learning Method® and is about to launch online the popular Secrets to Successful Spelling™ workshop at the end of August. Based in Adare, Co Limerick, where she works with clients on a one to one basis, she can be contacted on 087-2996054 or through their website http://www.hummingbirdlearning.com

Why Meaning is So Important for Spelling

When my boys were in primary school, they had an English book that was used for reading and spelling.  It was different to the type of reader that I had in school (who is old enough to remember the Maura, Seán and Rusty books).  Their English book was more of a workbook.  Along the left hand side were random words chosen simply because they were phonetically similar. Spelling homework was to learn off the words.  It was pretty easy to remember them, in the short term, because they all had the same sound.

Understanding what the word meant wasn’t really part of the process, but without meaning, learning how to spell the word is worthless.  Being able to use the word again, in the appropriate context, is an essential part of learning to spell. It is also an important aid in reading and composition. Why else would we need to do it?

In order to spell window, you must knowIn order to understand what a word means you have to either make a visual still image of it or create a contextual mini movie in your memory.  Creating this means that in the future when reading the word, for a fraction of a nano-second, that image pops back into your head and you have understanding.

This skill allows you to expand your vocabulary and comprehension.  It allows you learn new languages quickly and easily. Like all skills it must be learned and honed.  Controlling your images for spelling and comprehension is essential.  It is easy to make an image for nouns.  Imagine a dog – easy.  For abstract words it is more complicated but once mastered it too becomes easy.  This is where internal mini movies come into their own.

A good Thesaurus dictionary is a vital item in every home.  I think they are a wonderful way to connect words of similar meaning to the same internal image. If you come across a new word to spell and are unsure of the meaning, look it up in the Thesaurus.  Chances are that you already have an internal picture of another word that has a similar meaning to the new word.  Now all you do is tag the new word on to the same image.

Some skills are learned to do something that lasts for a short period of time.  Learning how to put meaning behind every word is a skill that will make spelling easy for the rest of your life.

Elaine Sparling is the creator of the Hummingbird Learning Method® and is about to launch the popular Secrets to Successful Spelling™ workshop, online, at the end of August. Based in Adare, Co Limerick, where she works with clients on a one to one basis, she can be contacted on 087-2996054 or through their website http://www.hummingbirdlearning.com

Use Your Brain For a Change

One of my favourite quotes is by Dr Richard Bandler and it is “When you want new results, it requires new thinking”.  Thinking is just something we do.  We are always thinking about something.  Even when we are asleep our brain is still working.

We are born with this amazing inbuilt computer but unfortunately it didn’t come with a set of instructions.  We have to learn how to use it as we go along and mostly we use it out of habits we have formed from watching and listening to others, so if we want to change those habits we have to think differently and to think differently we have to use our brain to get that change.

Your Brain uses both sides when working at its best
Your Brain

There is a lot of talk about people being right-brained and left-brained.  You might have taken one of those quizzes online to determine which you are.  The assumption is that a person who is ‘left-brained’ is more logical, analytical and objective and suitable for jobs such as accountant, solicitor or programmer.  The ‘right-brained’ person is said to be more creative, intuitive, thoughtful and subjective and might want to be an actor, graphic designer or therapist.

The reality is that people are not one or the other, they are not ‘right-brained’ or ‘left-brained’.  The theory grew out of the work of Nobel Prize winner Roger W Sperry.  He discovered that cutting the corpus callosum, the structure that connects the two hemispheres of the brain, reduced or eliminated seizures in people with epilepsy.

However, patients who had undergone the procedure also had new symptoms after the communication pathway between the two sides of the brain was cut. Some patients found that they could no longer name objects that were processed by the right side of the brain, yet they could still name objects processed by the left side of the brain. This led Sperry to suggest that language was controlled by the left side of the brain.

However, later research has shown that the brain is not nearly as neatly divided as this. The brain actually works best when both sides of the brain are engaged at the same time. Neuroscientists have found that the two sides of the brain work together to perform a wide variety of tasks and the two sides communicate through the corpus callosum.

In a study of over 1000 participants by the University of Utah, it was revealed that while activity was sometimes higher on one side or the other in certain critical regions, on average both sides of the brain were essentially equal in their activity. Dr Jeff Anderson, the study’s lead researcher explains “It’s absolutely true that some brain functions occur in one or other side of the brain. Language tends to be on the left, attention more to the right, but people don’t tend to have a stronger left or right sided brain network.  It seems to be determined more connection by connection”.

This makes the corpus callosum key in using our brain to evoke and strengthen new thinking.  Mid line exercises help to make those connections.  We need both sides of our brain working together to create strong neuropathways, making focus and recall much better and easier.

So the next time you take one of those quizzes, know that it’s just a bit of fun. Now I must go and check my horoscope.

So, what is Fluent Reading?

A while ago I was on a course and the trainer told us a story about the time that he was dead late for a course he was due to give. He rang the hotel to ask them to pass on the message that he was on his way & would be there as fast as he could.  The receptionist asked him where exactly he was & when he told her, her reply was “you can drive as fast as like, but it won’t make any difference when you’re going in the wrong direction”.

Like everything, reading with fluency takes practice, however there is no point in practicing & practicing unless you are practicing the right thing. Reading aloud is right up there with public speaking as one of the biggest fears people have.  It’s easy to see why. In many ways they are one and the same thing.  Making a mistake while reading aloud in a class full of your friends (& mortal enemies too), is every child’s nightmare. Nobody wants to be laughed or sniggered at.

Reading Tips from Hummingbird Learning Centre
Reading Tips from Hummingbird Learning Centre

So what exactly is ‘fluent reading’?  Fluent Reading is the ability to read smoothly and automatically with expression and attention to punctuation.  The speed at which you read is called the ‘Pace’.  The goal is to read at just the right pace, I call it the Goldilocks pace, not too fast, not too slow, just right!

‘Phrasing’ is chunking words together into meaningful phrases rather than reading, each, word, at, a time.

When reading aloud, it is important to make it interesting for the listener, to engage them, and this is done using your voice. Reading with feeling, changing your voice to match a character, adding excitement or other emotion by moving your voice up and down, or making it louder or softer, adds expression to text.  Using intonation and expression adds to reading fluency. In a nutshell, you should read as you would speak.

Finally, punctuation is there for a reason!  When reading pay attention to the punctuation.  It is there to help you to read aloud with meaning.  It is an aid to fluent reading because it tells you where to pause, where to breathe, where to stop, where to change voices and add dramatic effect.  You stop for a second at every full stop (period). You have an intake of breath at a comma.  Your voice goes up for a question mark. You add excitement when you see an exclamation mark!!! (You read that with excitement, didn’t you?).  You can change your voice for a character when you see “inverted commas”.

Pace -I think it is really important that before you read aloud, you read the text silently to yourself first.  You may only have time to scan it but this gives your brain a chance to see what the text is about.  Then when you actually read it aloud, it will feel more familiar and this helps to create fluent reading.  If you are helping your child with homework, give them time to read silently first, that way if there are any new or unfamiliar words they can ask about them in advance, rather than getting stuck on them mid-sentence.  Stopping to sound out a word while reading interrupts the reading fluency, so a little bit of preparation goes a very long way.

When I was a teenager I used to read at mass and one Sunday I was to read the second reading.  Unfortunately, the person was doing the first reading didn’t show up and I got an elbow from my dad for me to go up to the altar and do both readings. Panic!  I had only practiced the second one! Panic turned into sheer horror when I started to read.  The second paragraph had lists of names and places and tribes that were just about pronounceable had I practiced them, but now were double Dutch!! I stumbled through the first five or six, feeling my face go redder and redder and then I got some divine inspiration – I just skipped the rest!  A quick glance down the page got me onto the final straight and it was over.  Thankfully I was able to read the second lesson with ease, because I had practiced it.  I thought my dad would be livid with me but I later realised that nobody (except perhaps the priest, although I couldn’t even be sure about him), noticed that I had left out a huge chunk from the first reading.  I think that if I had tried to continue to read that difficult passage I would probably never have read in public again.

So, give your child a chance.  Allow them to scan and silently read the piece before they read aloud.  It will definitely help them to become more fluent readers.

Elaine Sparling is the CEO of the Hummingbird Learning Centre who help adults and children maximise their learning potential.  Based in Adare, Co Limerick, she can be contacted on 087-2996054, through their website www.hummingbirdlearning.com or on their Facebook Page

 Smart Strategies to Motivate Gifted Kids to Think

Gifted Class in USA“I’m working with a great group of gifted students. The only problem is that some of them don’t like to have to think because they’re used to everything being so easy. How do I motivate my top students to want to get to the next level? How do I get them to want to dig deep and not just to be masters of the surface level?”

This is from an email I got from a friend of mine who has started teaching in America and asked for my help.  Her training had prepared her for dealing with learning disabilities but she felt less equipped when working with children in the gifted program.  I have worked with many gifted children at Hummingbird Learning Centre because their parents and teachers had noticed that their motivation had died, they lacked focus and attention and their grades were slipping.

Here are some of the strategies from the Hummingbird Learning Method® that we use to motivate gifted children to think:

  1. Reward the process rather than the right answer

Make a huge effort to reward and praise their effort rather than their natural talent and intelligence. Remember that they have probably always been rewarded for getting the correct answer rather than their thinking process.

  1. Give them lots of choice

Find out what interests them and allow them to explore that topic using a multidisciplinary approach.

  1. Help them with failure

Failure can be very de-motivating. Gifted children are not good at everything but as they tend to be very good in certain areas, they can find it difficult to deal with failure when it comes.  Dealing with failure is an important life skill and one they need to cultivate in order to stay motivated to come up with a solution.

  1. Ask the school for challenging homework

It is important to maintain a good relationship with the school and class teacher.  Rather than the teacher simply giving the gifted child more of the same work, ask that they are given more challenging work.  This will stop boredom setting in and prevent disruptive behaviour in the classroom

  1. Ask for evidence to back up an answer

Asking for evidence to support their answer will get them to think deeper. Deeper thinking results in deeper answers.

Elaine Sparling is the CEO of the Hummingbird Learning Centre who help adults and children maximise their learning potential.  Based in Adare, Co Limerick, Ireland. She can be contacted on 087-2996054 or through their website http://www.hummingbirdlearning.com